Rough Draft November Week 2 is nearly over, and we’re almost halfway through the month. But this post isn’t about word count, plotting notebooks, or character names. This post has nothing to do with our WIPs because it’s all about our mental health while we scratch out our rough drafts while trying to live our regular, daily lives.

Today I want to talk about something we often don’t do while on any deadline, whether it be our editor’s, our agent’s, or our own. That thing is having fun. Last week we talked about self-care, which is hugely important, but fun is also important. And yes, fun is different than self-care. But when I have fun, I don’t want to spend a lot of money–especially this time of year with all the entertaining and gift-buying, etc. So here are a few ideas to get you away from your keyboard and out in the world.

Movie night!
Either alone or with a friend. Put on a Hallmark Christmas movie, or a horror flick. Something that will get your mind off of your WIP and make you laugh, cry, or hide beneath the blankets. Throw in a huge bowl of buttered popcorn and your favorite drink and pretend you’re twelve.

Play outside!
Grab your friends to throw a football or hit a baseball. Maybe go for a run with your running buddy. Just do something that moves your body and gets you breathing in some fresh, fall air.

Hike the woods!
If you live in a state where there are woods, hike the local trails before all the trees lose their leaves. If you have no woods, I’m sure you have something just as lovely. A park or a desert setting. Anything that gets your heart pumping while taking in the beauty of a late fall afternoon.

Dinner with friends!
Host a pot-luck dinner with friends. Have your friends bring over their favorite foods, open some wine or beer or your favorite beverage, and hang out like when you were in high school. If you have a fire pit or a patio, sit outside while the weather is still nice.

Field trips!
Pick apples, have a picnic, and drink cider. Although Halloween is over, many farms still have apples that need to be picked and cider that needs drinking. Bring a picnic and enjoy one of the last fall hayrides outside.

Bake a cake!
If you like to cook or bake, do so. Pull out your favorite recipes and start your dough rising and get that crockpot going. The best part of having cooking or baking as one of your hobbies is that you always have something awesome to eat when you’re done.
I know it sounds counterintuitive, but having separate hobbies and projects to work on helps keep your mind and soul balanced. It can also be motivation to finish your words so you can get back to your hobby. Whatever you choose to do, do it with a happy heart and no guilt. Your book will get written, regardless if you hit the magic 50K number. But ending November with a hunched back and crooked fingers serves no one–not you, not your family, and not your characters. So do yourself a favor by stepping away from your WIP and having some fun!